The man I met for coffee who waxed poetic about all of his relationships, tried to kiss me when I deposited him at the parking lot, called me twice the next day then texted at 7:20am on Sunday morning and when I told him I was uninterested in a romantic involvement he said I presumed too much then went into a monolog about all the things that were wrong with me that he had determined in the two whole hours he spent with me two days prior then asked if I wanted to get together or not and when I said it would be ok if we could meet on a professional level and he said no he was only interested in getting together if there was a possibility of a romance? Well, yesterday he texted me a book recommendation. I was truly surprised because I thought he had made it very clear that he was only interested in having contact if there was a chance for love. So I decided that before I responded I should investigate the book in case there was some spiteful element to the suggestion. This morning I received another text from B#5 saying, “Sent u a recommendation yesterday. Might have been nice if u had acknowledged it.”
So what do you think DBT?