Yep, it is time to start going out again and yesterday, a stunning spring day here in central Virginia, I had a delightful lunch al fresco with a lovely man. If you have been following my recent dating life, you will know that this is a dramatic change of pace- meaning a delightful dating experience.
This man is nice looking, athletic (including yoga), a pleasant conversationalist, has a charming sense of humor, is an established professional, he is a father age AND he has been divorced for a few years which means he is actually
We have enough in common to be compatible but differ enough to be interesting to each other.
Here’s what happened:
He talked about his children rather than his ex-wife.
He asked questions and listened to my answers.
He shared appropriate information about himself rather than things like his sexual preferences, his issues with his co-workers/relatives/other women, details of his divorce or medical problems.
He expressed interest in my viewpoints rather than judging or trying to fix things.
He let me speak in full sentences rather than interrupting.
We ate at one of my favorite restaurants (his too), chatted and shared a chocolate mousse.
After lunch we took a nice walk and that was that. We agreed that we would like to see each other again and there was a comfortable lack of physical contact or attempt there of. (Click here to read about a contracting date)
I look forward to seeing him again soon.
When was the last time you were pleasantly surprised on a date?